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6 comments | Sunday, June 10, 2007

There's only a few things that people do that I absolutely have zero tolerance for... let's just call them my pet peeves.

1) People who are late.

I'm always at least a half an hour early for every appointment because I hate being late. An attribute I'm glad I possess because everything in the airline industry is time sensitive.

2)People who stare.

Now this shit drives me up the wall! I would rather you be bold enough to say exactly what you're thinking about me rather than stare a hole through me. You know that look people give you when you know they're thinking "that dude is gay". No shit Sherlock!

3)Guys who say they're going to call you at a certain time and then you don't hear from them.

Now of the three I think this is the one that burns me up the most. Bare with me because I think I need to get a few things off of my chest and writing is therapuetic . If you say you're going to call just pick up the damn phone and call. If I promise someone that I'm going to call then that's exactly what I'm going to do, and if I can't I'm going to send a text message unless I'm physically ill and incapable of picking up my phone.

I'm sure by now you've guessed that some guy has pissed me off and you're right. Consistency is so important in any relationship and he's everything but consistent. So why haven't I deleted his number from my phone yet? Becasue he's fine! I know that's a shallow reason...trust me I really do and I should know better, but now I know what the girls from SWV were singing about in that song WEAK. Lawd have mercy!!!

I think it would be so much easier to forget about him if we didn't have so much fun when we're together. He's almost everything that I look for in a potential mate, if only I could get him to use his phone. I know this probably sounds crazy but communication is so important to me, and there's nothing worse than being in a relationship all by yourself.

My luck has got to get better. I wanted to be married with kids and a house by 30 and that's only three years away. I think it's time I start taking applications because Mr. Almost Right is turning out to be wrong. Ok I'm done venting, but I have the feeling this won't be the last time. Did I mention how fine he is?


<$BlogCommentAuthor$> said...

I would have to agree I have the same pet peeves. However, I know I have a starring problem, sometimes I'm just being nosey and taking things in. Or sometimes I'm in a daze and I don't even realize that I'm staring. But anyway, if a person says that they are going to call and they don't, that says a lot about a person. I find it unattractive when a man is not a man of his word, even if it is something as simple as I'm going to call you. If you don't mean it, don't say it. If this happens too many times, I would definitely delete his number and keep on moving because brotha could be blocking you from meeting a nice man who will call when he says he is going to!!

June 11, 2007 12:54 PM

<$BlogCommentAuthor$> said...

standing in front of an engine inlet??


not advised !!!!

i suggest u change this pic before the final exam !

June 11, 2007 10:14 PM

<$BlogCommentAuthor$> said...

Laughing at Pono...thinking the same thing too.

June 11, 2007 10:18 PM

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June 12, 2007 8:41 AM

<$BlogCommentAuthor$> said...

I agree with you about the pet peeve of a peson saying they're going to call and don't. I give them two chances... then I purge them quickly. Not calling is not the big issues, its being a man of your word. And if you can't stick to something as simple as calling, then those are signs of this is not a good communicator. Also, he's not that interested. Don't be blinded by the physical boo. I met someone in Atlanta during Memorial Day weekend. He said he would call me twice before the following Tuesday. He did'nt. He's purged.........lol MERZ....

The starring..... first of all you're cute. So guys are going to starr. With me, I just say hello and sometimes that gives them a little confidence boost to say hello. You'll find him when you're not looking. Actually, you did once.....hmmmm!

June 13, 2007 12:05 PM

<$BlogCommentAuthor$> said...

Who cares how fine the nigga is... HE GOTTA GO! I've been down this road before and it's not worth it. If he can't respect u enough to call u back erase his number and MOVE THE HELL ON! U deserve better. I'm speaking from experience it's not worth it and I'm currently in a relationship with a wonderful man so I'm not one of those single, lonely jealous people tyrna make u lonely too. LOL But Mr. Right will never FIND YOU (cuz u arent supposed to look for him) while u r all tangled up in this fool.

-A. Benjamin Irby

Check out my blog: http://blog.abenjaminirby.com

June 15, 2007 1:19 AM


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