Living Out Loud with Darian

Are you tired of all of the sites targeted at Black gay and same gender loving men that seem to only have one goal,meaningless casual sex? Abovethelife.com provides an alternative to the usual dating sites that we frequent from time to time(i.e Blkgaychat and Adam 4 Adam), don't pretend like you've never been to these sites. lol !

Wil, the creator and his staff have created a site that is free from the overt sexual nature of other websites and have decided to focus on fostering dialogue between same gender loving men and women and promoting healthy relationships.

The site was formerly known as X-clusivity, but closed down for a brief period of time and reopened under the new name in October. There's currently 3,784 users in the Abovethelife community.

One section of the site that instantly grabbed my attention was the Life Blog section. This is where bloggers, many of whom are published writers have the opportunity to discuss issues relevant to the Black gay community. Each week there is a different blogger, and I'm proud to say that yours truly will be featured during the first week of every month. My colleagues Jonathan and Jared will be featured the second and fourth week in every month.

So if you're looking to join a community that's different from all the rest I recommend that you give Abovethelife.com a try.

I've posted my first video blog for the site and Jared's blog as well for you to watch. I hope you enjoy what you see.

Warning: Jared's smile is breathtaking !